Updated: Sep 15, 2020
It seems that everyone has taken the phrase, oh they are toxic and ran all the way to Venus with it. I mean as soon as a person does anything....OMGOSH she or he is so toxic. Sweet LOVVVVVVVVVVVEEEEEEEEEEEEE have you ever sat back and wonder to yourself, am I Toxic? Do I have toxic ways? Do I say toxic things? Is my vibes a vibe killer? I mean there are many ways to see if you are, you just need to accept it.
Let's be real, we have ALL been toxic one way or another to someone at least once, twice or three times in our lives. Some choose to be every chance they get. If you can not admit this, tell God I said what's up, since you are a living saint. Nah but for real, if you think this way, this is a tell tell sign that you are toxic. Anyone who can not admit it or walks around as if they never made mistakes are some of the most toxic people. I cut my own self off from the world, because I felt the need to really do some healing. When I decided to do this I felt a burden lift off my chest. I mean I felt so free, I've become super sensitive to bullshit. This did not happen over night and it took me to be around toxic situations see my toxic ways. Heck I even seen I am not as bad as I thought, but I still knew I had healing to do from my reaction to different things. My other half always told me I was too hard on myself and when I decided to fix my little issues I understood why.
People Who Are One-Sided TOXIC. Never argue or explain to a one sided person. Okay them to death, because no matter what you say or do, they will never see your point. Never spend time raising your blood pressure trying to explain. You are not Kevin Hart!!!
People Who Are Passive Aggressive TOXIC. Here is a break down. A person behavior might include avoiding direct or clear communication, evading problems, fear of intimacy or competition, making excuses, blaming others, obstructionism, playing the victim, feigning compliance with requests, sarcasm, backhanded compliments, and hiding anger. If you point it out and they are one sided.........RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!! At least till they admit it. Some never will so love them from a distance, because they live off of toxicity.
People Who Lack Forgiveness And Trust TOXIC. YES once upon a time I had trust issues BAD!! Even though I forgave, I did not trust. This is toxic because anything can trigger that issue to make you feel like the same thing will happen again. Now your acting out of character over things you have forgiven, so you thought. Fix it, even if you have to part ways, because this will only build up more toxic ways.
People Who Build Relationships On Lies SUPER TOXIC..... Toxic normally seek out anyone who will build a relationship living, feeding and breathing lies they tell themselves. Normally the two connect on a toxic level, which makes that friendship at the moment, because as soon as this person objects or disagrees the "Ship" will begin to sink. You know these people seek out those who will listen to their 1/3 of the story and feel bad for them. Not until they begin to see, well damn this person has issues let me help. Once that happens the relationship normally takes a turn and that toxic person no longer wants you in their life just because their toxic ways no longer entice the relationship. If a person tells the same story in different ways with new characters. It is time to wonder........... #toxic.
Don’t be toxic, be a breath of fresh air in a world that is choking itself to death. Find your truth and live it. It’s never too late to make the proper changes to fix your attitude and energy. I thank God that I am able to admit my issues and fix them, without worrying about anyone else and what they are doing. Some never can and would rather live in a lie to gain attention and sympathy. RUN CLEAR from that kind of toxic behavior, because these be the type that go above and beyond to make their toxic way a-ok.