Did you miss me? 🧡

It’s been a while, and I sure have missed you all.

Over the last 2 months, I took a much-needed hiatus to pour into my peace.

My therapy looked like music, friends, a little travel, getting my physical together, and having someone I could call and dump on while navigating some of these big-girl decisions.

And yes, somewhere in there I participated in the Hunger Games of dating. 😂 But even THAT brought me somewhere I needed to be: CLARITY.

This journey started with seeing the beautiful Alex Isley. If you’re a Lover Girl—or simply someone who still believes in love—her show reminds you that heartbreak doesn’t mean love is over for you. Sometimes a connection was an experience, a lesson, and part of your growth. Baby, my Sacral Chakra was FED. 🧡

Then came my 45th Solar Return. Nothing overly complicated—sushi, drinks, laughter, good conversation, and beautiful women who poured love into me. Exactly what I needed entering this new era because 45 has unlocked a whole new level of I don’t give a fuck. 😂

And y’all know I recently wrote about PEACE, but this month showed me another level of it. Things really do fall into place.

Seeing Jilly from Philly gave me that extra boost of PEACE. No phones. No distractions. She wanted us PRESENT. And when I tell you it was a vibe from the moment she came out until the moment she left?! Jilly made peace and happiness look AMAZING. She embodied her craft, enjoyed herself, and invited us into that energy.

That made this Sacral Chakra experience even deeper because the Sacral isn’t just sexual energy. It represents pleasure, creativity, joy, emotion, movement, connection, and expression.

And now, as we move toward the

Aquarius Full Moon on July 29 and into the season many recognize as the 8/8 Lion’s Gate Portal, I’m carrying all of this with me.

Aquarius energy gives me a beautiful theme for this season: What needs to change so I can live more freely as myself?

And that’s where the Sacral comes in.

Explore your pleasure beyond sex. Paint. Color. Dance. Play music. Create something. Get near water. Wear orange. Journal about what actually brings you joy. Move your body. Let yourself laugh. Explore your sensuality on YOUR terms. Stop waiting for another person to give you permission to feel alive.

Then use 8/8 as an intentional checkpoint: What am I ready to create now that I’m clearer about what I no longer want?

Because when we explore Sacral energy intentionally, the goal isn’t to chase a temporary high. It’s to make room for creative flow, confidence, emotional expression, pleasure, inspiration, and the freedom to experience life again.

And THAT pretty much sums up my last month:

Peace. Pleasure. Creativity. Clarity. Transformation.

So while I’ve been quiet, I’ve definitely been creating.

This next chapter of She’s Royal Gems x Colors Make Me Happy 2 is going to look a little different.

Asé. 🧡