You’re the Boss: What A Song Can Teach Us About Our Chakras

Sometimes meditation doesn’t sound like silence, singing bowls, or soft music.

Sometimes meditation sounds like Rick Ross featuring Nicki Minaj telling you, “You the Boss.” 😂. Yeah I saaid it.

That’s the beauty of music. A song can shift your mood, bring back a memory, make you move your body, remind you who you are, or make you look at yourself a little differently.

As a mom, business owner, and woman handling LIFE, some mornings I don't need another quiet moment. I need music that makes me get up and remember:

Girl, YOU run this.

So while listening to You the Boss, I started thinking about the seven chakras and what being the “boss” of your own life actually looks like. Because being a boss isn't only about money, career, or being independent. Sometimes being the boss means having enough self-awareness to lead yourself.

Let's check in.

❤️ Root Chakra — Do I Move Like I Know I’m Secure?

The Root Chakra represents our foundation, stability, safety, and sense of belonging. Which before shifting my entire foundation I found myself in the Gym. The gym help me get focus, set a schedule and stay dedicated not only to myself but deicated to my Roots, the foundation I created. Being a boss doesn't mean you never experience uncertainty. It means you're learning how to create stability within yourself even when life around you is changing.

Ask yourself:

Do I move through life knowing that I can create stability for myself, or does fear of losing people, money, relationships, or security cause me to make decisions beneath my standards?

Where have I been operating from survival instead of confidence? Because let's be real, boss energy starts with the foundation.

🧡 Sacral Chakra — Do I Confidently Own What I Desire?

Now we're getting into my favorite business......our Sacral business. 😂

The Sacral Chakra is associated with pleasure, creativity, emotions, sensuality, desire, and flow. This clicked when I was out trying to date in this special dating pool. I had to say now let's not be out here collecting soul ties just to hear I am going with the flow, let's see where things go vibe. Ok let's lock up these pearls and enjoy thyself till Mr. Ready arrives. Knowing what you want is powerful. Owning it without shame is even more powerful.

Ask yourself:

Do I confidently acknowledge what brings me joy, pleasure, creativity, and fulfillment, or do I minimize my desires because I'm worried about how other people will perceive me or I may end up alone?

You are allowed to want.

You are allowed to enjoy.

You are allowed to create.

You are allowed to change your mind.

That's boss energy too.

💛 Solar Plexus — Am I Taking Up Space or Playing Small?

THIS is where You the Boss really hits. The Solar Plexus is associated with confidence, personal power, self-esteem, determination, and action. Sometimes we know we're capable but still shrink ourselves to make other people comfortable. Afraid of what a person may say or do or even bring up. Yes bring up!!!! Many will try and shrink you with stories from the past, but baby never fold. WHYYYYY, Because it is the PASt. F-them people and their thoughts of who you use to be. We here now, OWN THAT SHIT!!!

Ask yourself:

Where am I still playing small even though I know I have DONE THE WORK and have the ability, experience, talent, and confidence to take up more space?

What would change if I stopped waiting for permission?

Sometimes you don't need another sign.

You need to move.

💚 Heart Chakra — Do I Know I’m Worthy of Being Chosen?

Being powerful doesn't mean becoming emotionally unavailable.

You can be independent and still desire love.

You can lead and still want someone to pour into you.

You can be strong and still be soft.

You can have realistic boundaries and not compromise your entire being.

Just know you are worthy NO MATTER WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH. The heart can heal and you can love yourself and others when that cup is full. Full of love and light! No begging, no chasing, just love and when rhat love feels less than. There is no love loss. Be grateful for the experience and move the hell on.

Ask yourself:

Do I truly believe I'm worthy of healthy, reciprocal love—or am I accepting inconsistent love because part of me still believes being chosen is something I have to earn?

Boss energy isn't begging somebody to recognize your value.

It's recognizing it yourself first.

💙 Throat Chakra — Do I Speak Like My Voice Has Value?

Your voice matters.

Your boundaries matter.

Your “yes” matters.

And your NO definitely matters. No is a complete sentance. Just make sure it is coming from an authentic healthy place. Sometimes we listen to respond. Take time to process before you speak. Yes, the Throat Chakra is associated with communication, truth, and self-expression. However it is also about being able to listen and understanding, without losing your true voice.

Ask yourself:

When something matters to me, do I communicate confidently and clearly—or do I shrink, overexplain, soften my boundaries, or stay quiet because I'm afraid of someone's reaction?

Being the boss of your life means learning to speak for yourself without needing everyone to agree with you.

💜 Third Eye — Do I Trust Myself to Make Boss Decisions?

Confidence isn't only about how you walk into a room.

It's also trusting yourself when nobody else can make the decision for you.

The Third Eye is associated with intuition, perception, awareness, and discernment.

See the big picture, but also see the reality of that big picture. We can all see things as being great, however is it great for YOU???

Ask yourself:

When my intuition and someone's words don't match, do I trust what I'm observing—or do I keep questioning myself because I want the situation to turn out differently?

Boss decisions aren't always comfortable decisions.

Sometimes the most powerful decision is accepting what you see.

🤍 Crown Chakra — Am I Walking Boldly in Who I’m Becoming?

The Crown Chakra brings us back to purpose, connection, perspective, and something greater than our ego. The ego will get humbled real quick if you keep acting like things always supposed to go your way. Sometimes becoming requires releasing an old version of ourselves. And that can be scary ASF. This is the time you must trust in the most high. This is the time to go to him.

Ask yourself:

Am I confidently walking toward the person I feel called to become, or am I holding onto an older version of myself because she's familiar to me and everyone else?

Growth may require you to introduce yourself again.

That's okay.

🎶 So… Who's Really the Boss?

A song can make you feel like the boss.

But self-awareness makes you ask whether you're actually leading your own life.

Are you secure?

Do you own your desires?

Do you trust your power?

Can you receive love?

Do you use your voice?

Do you trust yourself?

Are you walking in your purpose?

That's why I'm exploring music differently.

My meditation doesn't always have to be quiet.

Sometimes I need to turn the music UP, move my body, check in with myself, and let a song lead me into a conversation with Me, My Chakras & I.

So the next time You the Boss comes on, don't just sing along.

Ask yourself:

“Am I actually showing up like the boss of my own life?”

And if the answer is not yet…

Baby, that's not judgment.

That's CLARITY. 💜✨