🌹 Happy Venus Friday, Lovelies 🌹

Love & Letting It Fall Away

First off, I just want to say THANK YOU to the beautiful souls who came out to support me and my sister for our 8:8 Lions Gate Heart Chakra Activation Portal. The energy was so real, so grounded. We connected to the Earth, cracked open our heart space, and created magic under that portal energy.

And baby, the next day, my sistah guided us through a powerful Hapé ceremony and when I tell you, it wasn’t just her guiding us, spirit took over! I had always been a little hesitant about Hapé. Something about knowing it would pull out a part of me I wasn’t quite ready to face. But honestly? It was the medicine of surrender I didn’t know I needed.

✨ Venus Friday Message: Let Love Teach You YOU

Love will show you things you didn’t ask to see parts of yourself you thought you healed, pieces you forgot existed, wounds you’ve been hiding behind strength.

And no, I’m not saying you don’t love yourself. But love will highlight the blindspots. The places within you that still need more softness, more compassion, more you.

Sometimes love comes just to crack your heart open wide enough to let the real you be seen. Sometimes love’s only assignment is to remind you of your worth even if that means walking away, even if that means looking in the mirror with tears in your eyes saying, “I deserve better.”

🔥 This Is the Year of 9: The Year of Release & Rebirth

This ain’t just a year it’s a universal 9 year. The year of completion, transformation, and karmic energy. You're either:

• Repeating old cycles,

• Or finally growing through them.

But baby, you can’t drag those cycles into your next season. That autopilot karma? It’ll keep rerouting you to lessons you should’ve already graduated from.

This is your reminder to:👐🏾 Surrender.

Surrender what you thought would be.Surrender who you thought they would be.Surrender the old versions of yourself you keep resuscitating.Surrender the control. Surrender the resistance. Let the Fall Season show you how to let it fall—the fears, the patterns, the people, the expectations.

💛 Lover Girl Healing

It’s hard being a lover girl in a world that treats softness like weakness.It’s hard when your love is pure, but your boundaries weren’t always strong.Being a lover girl will have you battling with your own reflection like, “Why do I care so deep?”

But pause.

Ask yourself: Am I loving from a healed space? Or a hopeful wound?

Because the healed lover girl don’t chase.She attracts, aligns, and allows.She surrenders and lets what’s not for her fall.

🫶🏾 Community, Heart & Home

As we slide into these colder seasons, connection becomes our warmth. Authentic love whether romantic or platonic is the key to staying grounded. We’re not doing survival mode anymore. We’re doing sacred, soulful, reciprocal love. Hold on to those who hold you with care. Let go of those who only hold you when it’s convenient.

If you’ve been feeling the shifts, you’re not crazy. You’re just evolving.And evolution often feels like falling apart before coming back together stronger. So on this Venus Friday, I leave you with this:

💗 Fall in love with who you're becoming

💗 Surrender to what spirit is unfolding

💗 Let your heart lead the way—even if it shakes while doing so

Be real. Be soft. Be happy. Be HER.

With love,

Tammy

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