Activate your Pleasure Chakras
- Love Me Tammy
- 2 hours ago
- 3 min read
Be honest…
How can you enjoy pleasure if you’re stuck in a space where you don’t even know what pleasure looks like for you?
How it feels foryou???
How it feels to truly receive.
As a Lova Girl, I had to take a step back off the dating scene! Year a year of the gym and celibacy. 2025 I got to understand what I like and do not like. With the help of my Clear Quartz Pleaser and Pleasure wand. Yeah your girl got to explore the real and self love hole truly learning how to break karmic habits.
Was it easy? Absolutely not.
As a mom who loves her babies deeply, I had to pause and also focus on them! Yes I still have dreams. I still have desires. I still have ambitions. But when everything continuously falls on you the responsibilities, the expectations, the weight — you can start to feel discouraged… disappointed… even displeased with certain outcomes.
And that’s when I realized I was on the road of me and this is when I got to look back and see that
Pleasure is not random. Pleasure is built.
And it begins in your chakras.
🔴 Root Chakra — Survival vs. Safety
If you’re stuck in survival mode, pleasure feels foreign. The Root Chakra governs safety, stability, and foundation.
When it’s imbalanced, you’re constantly in “fight or flight.” And let’s be real when you’re in survival mode, you can’t feel pleasure. You’re just trying to get through the day. Pleasure begins when you feel safe.
Safe in your home.
Safe in your finances.
Safe in your body.
Discipline. Structure. Accountability.
That’s Root Chakra work.
🧡 Sacral Chakra — Pleasure & Receiving
The Sacral Chakra is your pleasure center.
Creativity. Sensuality. Emotional flow.
But here’s the truth:
You cannot experience pleasure if you are emotionally blocked or constantly pouring without receiving. Many women say they want pleasure, but they’re uncomfortable receiving help, compliments, rest, or support.
Sacral healing asks:
Can you receive without guilt?
Can you enjoy without overthinking?
Pleasure is not just physical intimacy.
It’s joy. It’s creativity. It’s emotional freedom.
💛 Solar Plexus — Self-Worth & Discipline
Taking accountability is Solar Plexus work.
The Solar Plexus Chakra governs confidence, identity, and personal power.
When it’s weak, you:
Doubt yourself
Avoid responsibility
Shrink your capacity
Blame circumstances
When it’s strong, you:
Stick to boundaries
Keep promises to yourself
Build routines
Move with intention
Pleasure requires self-respect.
And self-respect requires discipline.
💚 Heart Chakra — Loving Without Losing Yourself
As Lova Girls/Boys, we give.
We nurture.
We hold space.
Or
We Take care of
We provide
But if your Heart Chakra is overextended, you love everyone except yourself.
Heart healing means:
Loving yourself as deeply as you love others
Releasing resentment
Letting go of martyr energy
Pleasure begins when your love is balanced.
🔵 Throat Chakra — Speaking Your Needs
If you can’t say what you need, you can’t receive it.
The Throat Chakra governs communication and truth. Pleasure requires expression:
“I need help.”
“I deserve rest.”
“This is not enough for me.”
Silence kills pleasure.
Truth restores it.
💜 Third Eye & Crown — Alignment & Awareness
The Third Eye allows you to see patterns.
TheCrownconnects you to divine timing.
When you understand yourself, your triggers, your habits, your wounds you stop sabotaging your own joy. Understanding thyself is the beginning of pleasure.
🌸 So What Is Pleasure Really?
Pleasure is not just a man bussing wide open.
Pleasure is:
Peace in your home
Financial stability
A calm nervous system
A structured routine
Alignment with your purpose
Emotional maturity
Boundaries without guilt
Pleasure is becoming what you want to attract.
You cannot attract softness while living in chaos.
You cannot attract discipline while living in avoidance.
You cannot attract abundance while dumbing down your own capacity to receive.
🌺 Tameka’s Word
If you are lacking pleasure, it’s not because you’re broken It’s because something is out of alignment.
And the beautiful part?
Alignment can be rebuilt.
Chakra by chakra.
Boundary by boundary.
Decision by decision.
Pleasure is not found.
It’s cultivated.
Asé 💎✨
Ps my discipline was the gym! That’s another Blog!
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